Discover The World In Lisa's Book Nook: June 2018

Monday, June 11, 2018

Finding Myself Through My Struggles.

Are you struggling with finding your why? What exactly is it that you were put on earth to do that will fulfill your life and make you feel like you made a difference? Do you feel like there is more that you could do to help contribute to the needs of your family? Maybe you have a need to help others. Do you feel the need for more adult interaction... to make new friends who help build you up and make you a better person?

These were several things that I may or may not have even known I needed in my life until after I joined Usborne Books & More. Yes, I knew I needed to find something that would help me and my family financially... but I soon found out there was so much more than just financial help I needed.

The more I worked my Usborne Books & More business, the more I realized that Usborne Books & More was giving me a whole lot more than just added income and a home library. Since joining Usborne Books & More, I have come to realized that I AM capable of a lot more than I give myself credit for! You see, I've always been one to criticize myself and everything I do. I always needed reassurance that I was doing something right or that I was doing a good job. I've been full of self doubt for as long as I can remember. Deep down I "knew" I could do it, I knew I was doing a good job, but my brain struggled with having a bit of faith in myself.

I've recently come to realize that I had made a lot of excuses! Yes, excuses that have stopped me from doing the things I've wanted to do, going places I've wanted to go, and even working toward bettering my life. I constantly let my brain convince me that my friends would think "you aren't certified or qualified to be a fitness coach", "you are not outgoing enough", "you aren't fit enough", "your skin isn't perfect so how can you sell cosmetics", or whatever other excuse popped into my head. I let fear overtake me. The one excuse that was the worst though "I don't know how to do what it takes to be successful".... I have spent countless hours doing online training events to learn what I needed to do. I have taken pages upon pages of notes, I have attempted putting the training to work, but I still struggled with it. I struggled with remaining consistent in using the knowledge I was learning.

Since joining Usborne Books & More, I have discovered some of the most amazing team leaders who have PUSHED me, ENCOURAGED me, and TAUGHT me that I CAN DO IT if I just set my mind to it. They have given me the tools I needed to know exactly what to do and how to do it. Those tools made a HUGE impact on my attitude about my abilities to work my business. It gave me the confidence in myself that I was lacking. Sure, I was already doing most of the things in the #Power20 Team Challenge she provided us. I just couldn't wrap my brain around how to use the activities I was doing to benefit my business... and then there was the whole fear of the word "NO" from potential customers and/or hostesses which was holding me back from booking parties.

My Team Director invited me to join her Challenge Group to train and prep us to become team leaders. BUT... in order to join the group, I had to meet a few requirements! I got down to the last day, had to work all day, and got home and had it in my head that there was "no way I would meet the requirements by the end of the day" so I gave up on myself and my goal yet again! I didn't even try! I was mad at myself, I was frustrated that I didn't put the tools to work for me that they have given me and I let my life and "excuses" take control.

The next morning I woke up and I had received a message from my Team Director that the team leaders were NOT ready for the challenge to start so they were giving us ONE MORE DAY to meet the requirements! It was either my day off work or a day I had an early out, I really don't recall now. It took me right down to the very last hours to do it, but I met the requirements and made it into the group! Not only that but I had people lined up for the next two months who are interested in hosting parties!

You see, I realized something then... I CAN do it! I just have to quit giving up on myself. I need to direct my focus on my goals and not on my fears. I had my "Why" but it wasn't enough to push me through and to quit giving up on myself and the goals and dreams I have set for myself and my family. When I got that fourth "Yes" to host a party during the month of May (one was actually my own) right down near the wire. I mean, seriously, it was dinner time when I got that 4th "Yes" that allowed me into the group. I was sitting in a local Chinese Restaurant eating a quick bite before I went home to start messaging more friends and family. I literally was almost in tears sitting there while eating my dinner due to the excitement and realization that I CAN DO IT WHEN I PUT MY MIND TO IT.

It really made me realized that it was ME getting in my own way... it wasn't that idea I had that I wasn't getting support from my uplines (though some of them gave up on me as much as I did myself) in running my own business nor was it the lack of support from my friends and family. It was the lack of support from myself! I wasn't allowing myself to reach those goals because I was giving up on myself. I was letting my fears take control. In all honesty, I still struggle with getting in my own way.... However, I AM doing better at believing in myself. It's a process that I am working on. I need to remember that feeling I had when I made it into my Team Leader's challenge group.

It's funny how things work. Shortly after meeting the requirements to join the group, I had a hostess who I think would make an amazing team member. She was soooooo excited about her party which she was hosting for me. She did everything I asked and suggested her to do to help her earn the most rewards.... I stepped outside my own comfort zone and asked her if she has ever considered doing what I do. She was excited about the possibility of joining my team. BUT, She too had tried other home businesses and did not succeed, just as I had before. She constantly asked for my approval before posting or commenting anything during her party. She wanted to make sure what she was saying was "ok" even though it was awesome! I saw a lot of me in her! The fear of failure, the fear of rejection from her friends and family, the lack of confidence in herself.

I say it's "funny" because, before joining Usborne Books & More, I probably wouldn't have seen myself in her because I hadn't dug deep into my own emotions, fears, etc. My team leaders, though they may not realize it, have really forced me to take a deep look inside of who I am and what makes me struggle so much with my business. What I had been learning from my Team Leaders was now helping me not only improve my own self confidence and face my own fears, but it was also helping me to help my hostesses and potential recruits better... because I could RELATE to what she was feeling. I was able to share with my hostess exactly what I'd been through and how I am able to work through it.

Do you struggle with accepting you as you are? Struggle with believing in yourself? Struggle in pushing toward your goals and dreams? Are you holding yourself back with the fears you harbor? Do you lack confidence in yourself? Do you create excuses so that you don't have to face your fears? I know, I've been there... I still am but I'm working on believing in myself more. I am working on building confidence in myself. I'm working on giving myself and my family the life we deserve.

Are you ready to face your fears, squash your excuses, do
something that will build up your confidence and belief in
yourself? Have you ever considered doing what I do? If your answer is yes, join me! Join my team of amazing Team Leaders and Book Ladies and let us help you find the life you want and dream of.

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Saturday, June 9, 2018

25 Ways to Excite and Inspire Young Readers

Kids tend to love or hate reading. Some would do almost anything to not have to sit down and read (Maybe even clean their room, which we all know how well they hate that job!)

Are you a parent who are interested in finding ways to inspire your children to pick up a book, here are some tips that might help you to find creative ways to inspire your child.

Visit the library often. Check with your local library, many times they will have story hours available to younger children. Allow your child to pick out a book or two to take home and read. This is a great way to create a reading habit.
Read aloud. Reading to a younger child or one that hasn’t quite mastered reading by themselves helps to instill the love of reading.
Use Puppets to tell the story. Have a craft day with your child using socks, lunch-sized paper bags, scraps of fabric, ribbons, yarn, buttons, scraps of paper or whatever you can find around the house and create puppets of their favorite characters from their favorite books. Use their puppets to tell the story. Here is a fun idea using paper and a clothespin to make a Strange Monster Magnet (which could easily be made into a puppet using popsicle sticks) to read along with “Tale Of Two Beasts“
Read with animation. By bringing each character to life by changing your voice and using body language, you will draw your child into the story and they will love hearing it told.
Find books with humor. Children LOVE to laugh so find books that are funny whether it is comic books or silly stories such as “I’m a Dirty Dinosaur” where the kids can act out with the dinosaur as he sniffs and snuffs, shakes about the place, tap on his tummy like a drum, or maybe just stamp about the street.
Audio Books. A great way to encourage children to seek out stories is by listening to audio books while driving or maybe during lunch or dinner. Usborne Books and More have several books which come with an audio book tucked inside too!
Support each child’s individual interests. Allowing your child to pick out books that fit their passions, they are more likely to want to read. For instance, if you child loves cars and trains, but you buy books about bugs and birds, he probably won’t be as interested in the books. But him books about different kinds of cars and trains, and he will love learning more about his passion.
Beautiful illustrations. Books with beautiful illustrations help bring the book to life. Illustrated Adventure Stories, Illustrated Classics, or Illustrated Grimm’s Fairy Tales are just a few great examples.
Show by example. When children see mom and dad reading books, magazines, or even the morning paper, they are learning that reading is fun. They will learn by the example you set, so make it a good one!
Buy books related to travel. If you have a summer trip planned out, buy a book related to where you are going. Going to Florida? Give them a book about sharks, alligators, beaches, palm trees, flamingos. Things and places they might see while on their trip.
Provide Access. Always have age-appropriate books and magazines around for the kids to read. Books in their bedroom, in the bathroom, in the family room or in the car. If the books are nearby and readily available, they are more likely to pick them up and read.
Set a reading routine. Maybe you read the newspaper first thing every morning, or maybe it’s every night after dinner. While you are reading, have your child sit down and read a book with you. Create a routine and they are more likely to make it a habit themselves.
Appreciate any reading. If you have a reluctant reader who only likes to read comic books, embrace that. Reading is reading and if your child fights you over reading anything other than what they like, it may discourage them from reading anything at all.
Limit the media. A child’s day can easily be consumed by all the technology out there in the world today. Favorite television shows, video games, computer time can all cut into any free time your child could have to spend on reading. Place limits on how much time they can spend on the technological side of life, and encourage reading.
Create a special reading place. Designate a special spot in the living room, family room, or even bedroom as a special reading place. Make it comfortable and inviting with plenty of books available.
Invite guest readers. Grandma, Grandpa, maybe Aunt Susie or the next door neighbor are coming for a visit. Invite them to share a story with the little ones!
Use poetry. Children are pulled into poetry, so take full advantage of this to use poetry as inspiration.
Read backward. Select a paragraph from the story and have the child read it backwards starting at the end of the paragraph and reading toward the beginning. By doing so, the child is forced to focus on the words instead of skimming through parts they know my memory.
Read aloud no matter what the age. Reading aloud to older children has it’s own benefits too… one being that it can teach them larger words and broaden their vocabulary.
Talk about what you are reading. Reading aloud isn’t’ enough. Be sure to talk about what you are reading, before, during, and after. Maybe the books is trying to give a “moral of the story” but a young child may not realize that. So when a character does something mean, discuss how being mean makes another character feel and maybe what character one could have done differently.
Make your own ABC Books. Encourage young readers to draw each letter on a piece of paper then using old magazines to cut out pictures that match the corresponding letter.
Create your own story. After reading a book, encourage your child to make up a new ending to the story or give them a prompt for them to write their own story. A Year in My Life is a great book for engaging your child in writing their own story.
Make a book log. Have young readers record on paper what books they read, who the author is, and what they liked about the book.
Right Writing. Have your child write their story on the right side of a spiral notebook, and create illustrations on the left side. Then, when they read their stories to their friends and family, they will get to see the illustrations about what the child is reading.
Find a Pen Pal. Encourage your child to write letters to a friend or maybe even a family member that lives far away and they write back. This encourages a child to want to write to their pal and they will be anxious to get a reply back for them to read.

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